Money or Love???
I'm a Singaporean and presently I'm having my own Company
in Bangkok. I'm been staying here for about 5 months and
I got to know couple of Thai ladies through my circle of
friends. I had a few uncalled relationships with Thai ladies
and I went through negative experiences, which created a
room of doubts? In me. Eventually I started to have mixed
feelings about Thai woman generally. Let me share with you
briefly about my first love in the "Land Of Smile"
(Thailand). She is a beauty, beyond words I could find to
describe her and she is also a brainy woman who thirst for
qualifications. She is a 2nd year Master Student from a
famous University in Bangkok. Our "so called" relationship
started off suddenly! Like a flame of fire. We were always
melting over each other with no restrictions, walls, barrie
r or strings to keep us apart. I started to think that "She
is going to be mine forever" and I was giving a very serious
thought about the whole relationship between us. With the
knowledge I have about her and I know that I can't plan
anything further. So, eagerly I started to enquire more
in depth about her family, her finance status her plans
and etc. The picture she painted to me was O.K and I know
that financially she depends on the scholarship she
receives from her University. Suddenly out of "nowhere"
we had a very small misunderstanding between us and both
of us knew it is our own mistakes. So we decided to
forgive & forget, correct & accept and continue from
where we stop. But she drifted away from me like a
floating illusion in a thin air and until today I'm
still puzzled "Why??". I tried to get in touch with her
in many ways but the results are always negative or no
replies.
One evening, I received an email from her and she wanted
to borrow some money from me. As I was reading through her
email and within me, there was a burning anger raging all
over my body WHY? Because she knew that I'm been
desperately trying to get in touch with her by sending her
emails too. But now because of her own desperate needs
she just have to get in touch with me by a "click" only. I
t's a display of a selfish attitude and I definitely will
win if I go to the "Court of Love". But still, because of
my framed up "Undying Love" for her and I decided to help
her financially by forgiving her. So, I thought everything
will improve and communication ports in between us will be
opened for a multi-level transmission. But to my dismay
she didn't even try to call me after that particular day
she received the money from me. Finally, I decided to
erase her from my memory and save her into an old unused
file. As I was still recovering from the process of her
memory transfer and storage.
Shockingly!! It's happening to me again. It's!! Ridiculous,
unbelievable and it's been destined that "History Will Repe
at" in my life. There she is again, lying in my inbox and
just waiting for me to click and open her and go through
her in details. It seems that she doesn't want's me to
forget her and as well to remember her. Maybe she wants me
to change to a "Humanoid" or maybe a "Robocop". When my
right fingers were moving towards the mouse and my brains
were screaming instructions to my right hand fingers
"Don't ever click open her message". Suddenly from my heart
, like a flash, like a lightning it went straight to the
point and clicked open the message from her. You know
something, my life really sucks... The message was simple
like A B C and she asked me to give her a part-time job!!
She will be able to work only 5 days in a week and she
needs the money to use for a Seminar in Singapore. She did
it again to me and she knows very well that I will give
her a job. She knows that I'm a person who will help if
I can. That's it!! I'm confused with her serial drama and
I still don't know my actual role yet. Anyway this time, I
really discipline myself by not having any high hopes on
her again. I planned a schedule and created a job slot for
her. Than, I replied to her with my offer and she gladly
accepted it. She offered to start work on a Monday and on
Sunday she called me to change her Monday to Wednesday.
Wednesday came and past without glitches but the worst
thing is, she never come to work or call me at all. So
sad?.. And I have to accept a person for what he or she
is.
My 1st question is, if you were in my shoe in the first
incident (1stparagraph) and how will you react?
My 2ndquestion are, if you were in my shoe in the second
incident (3rdparagraph) and how will you react?
Lastly, is there anyone out there who wants to
My doubt is whether Thai woman attitude is basically
like this or me as a foreigner being too nice?
What do you suggest that I should do to improve my future
relationship?
know please do leave me a personal note here?
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