saying "no thanks" shouldn't make you feel bad
Ok..so the swinging scene itself yes is very exciting and
once a couple decides to "take the plunge" in
inviting another person or persons into thier bed alot
of them i guess rush it..when in reality everyone has a prefrence
(admit it or not) thats is not a bad thing being picky and
knowing what you and your partner want and don't want.
The swinging scene itself is very laid back and relaxing
there is a certain amount of respect that everybody has
for eachother...when being approached by another couple
that you don't "click with" personality
wise or physically the most important thing to keep in mind
is to say no thanks in a way that you would like to be said no
thanks to. Respect and kindness is key and the couple you
are saying no to will understand and move on to more compatible
people.
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