It is hard, but someone has to do it!
When you are deciding to break up with someone, it is always
best to do it with taste and tact. First, be honest. Second,
don't drag the break up out for a long time. Simply state
why you want to break up (example) "Bret, this relationship
is not what I want anymore, I am no longer satisfied, I think
you are a great guy, but just not the person I am looking for
right now." Simple? Well sorta, then the person might
ask... "give me specific examples?" You can
briefly say, " the time we were making love, I dont
have a connection with you" or "When I am with
you, I don't feel like we are a couple, more of just friends,
its too platonic and I think that we dont need to work on being
a couple, it should just happen naturally" that statement
leaves very little room for "buts" now to the
second half, dragging it out is not good, because people
tend to get emotional and you may forget why you wanted to
break up or just give in, tell the person, " I am really
sorry this didnt work out, life is too short and I think you
are a great person and I know you will find someone else sooner
that I will, thanks for all your effort." A kiss on
the cheek will suffice and then get the hell out of there!
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