Anyone up for a challenge
Okay..I want to re-energize my sexual relationship with
my wife. However, she is closed minded about most of the
possibilities I have suggested. Any conversations we
have regarding changes or experimentation end up with
her getting upset and not wanting to talk about it anymore.
She then gets worried that I am seeing someone on the side,
which I have not done. She has a low self-esteem about herself,
which I think is what has caused her to lose her drive.
What I would really like is to investigate the swinging
lifestyle. I have suggested it in the past and we had a threesome
with another guy once which I thought was good but she didnt
enjoy too much. I suggested that we try it with another woman
but she is not too interested nor is she interested in another
MFM try. I have suggested soft swinging but am still resisted.
Are there any suggestions on how I can break through to her
that I have very strong needs and dont want to hurt her by
straying? More to the point are there any females or couples
that would love a challenge to break through to her through
a casual meet?
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