Knowing what to do, not wanting to do it
After reading through about 6 pages of these for advice
I still know not what to do. I have been seeing someone for
about 6 months and find I just don't see a future with
her. She is a wonderful person and has not really done anything
to upset me. Infact, I have never been treated so well. So
all I need to do is be honest and communicate this. The problem
is that I fear what will happen to her. She is unable to pay
all her bills, which I try to help her on (and through little
fault of her own, she is not bad with money, just poor). She
also has depression, self esteem issues, that she attends
conseling for. Lastly, she is diabetic and almost died
on me once as she doesn't care for her health when depressed.
I fear if I break up I will cause her catastrophic problems.
I do not want to hurt her but realize the longer I stay the
worse it will get. I tell myself after the holiday, I will
catch her bills up and leave. I care for her alot, I just don't
love her as a soul mate. This one is for the ladies, what should
I do.
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