re to partner losing weight
I've tried and tried but to no availe. My gf wants to
lose weight but just won't make any attempts. I'm
not talking 10 lbs or so she wants to lose around 40-50. She
is bigger now than when she carried our child. We have joined
a gym before and she did lose the weight but than she "quit"
going and put it all on. I try to boost her self esteem but
I'm always wrong to do it. And I'm the "bad
guy" if I want to go for a bike ride or a walk w/ the dog.
So it is more than just the thought of losing weight the partner
may need some mental help. For me it is a big turn off to even
see her, she is built like Anna Nicole Smith before the weight
loss. Not appealing to me.
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