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Why VERY INTELLIGENT Men Fail With Women

REASON #1: THEY'RE WRONG, BUT THEY CAN'T OR WON'T
SEE
IT OR ADMIT IT.

I mentioned that smart guys are used to being RIGHT
in most situations.

And what do most smart guys do when they come across
a situation where they're WRONG?

They find a new situation... one that fits their
strength. They know they'll be right next time, so

they just walk away... knowing that it won't be long

before they're right again.

(OR they let the "problem situation" destroy
them...
more on that later.)

Well, the BITCH about being wrong when it comes
to women and dating is THERE'S NOWHERE TO RUN AND
HIDE.

There's no quick "I'm right" around
the next corner
to make you feel better.

It only takes "failing" with a few women in a
row
for a smart guy to see the pattern... and realize that
something isn't working.

Solution? Think harder.

A smart guy just assumes that his logic must be
good... so he just keeps thinking harder.

But when no success comes, it really starts to
become mentally difficult.

Accepting that you're wrong is a VERY hard thing
for a "smart guy".

Accepting that you're not only wrong, but you have

NO CLUE WHERE TO EVEN START is even more difficult.

Ultimately, many smart guys come up with the following

logical conclusion:

I AM A SMART GUY, THEREFORE IF I CAN'T FIGURE OUT
HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN AND DATING, THEN THE
PROBLEM MUST NOT BE SOLVABLE OR WORTH SOLVING.

Try that on for a self-defeating idea.

REASON #2: THEY'RE BLIND AND ARROGANT.

In short, many smart guys refuse to accept that
a good, solid, workable answer could come from someone

"dumber" than them, so they discount any idea
that
comes from an "obviously less intelligent person"

before trying it.

Let me ask you a question:

If you were going to be walking across Africa on
foot, would you rather have your guide be the guy
on this planet with the highest I.Q., or a caveman
who lived a million years ago that had an I.Q. of
about 50... but who grew up being chased by lions
and all kinds of animals that wanted to eat him all
his life?

It's an interesting question.

Now, hopefully you'd like to have the guide who
isn't the smartest guy around... but who has escaped

from many, many dangerous situations with deadly animals...

But now let me ask you:

If you'd like to learn how to be more successful
with women and dating, would you take advice from
a guy who isn't very intelligent, but who knows how

to attract women?

There's something about being smart that makes
some guys unwilling to accept input, ideas, or instruction

from anyone who isn't either as smart or smarter than

them.

Well, any SMART GUY can see the folly in this particular

approach... once it's examined closely.

If you've been making this mistake, then you need
to STOP IT. Stop being an arrogant bastard, and open
your eyes.

Look around.

Learn from some "dumb" guys... and let them
teach
you how to get what you REALLY want.

REASON #3: POOR SOCIAL SILLS.

It BLOWS MY MIND how many smart guys I meet that
just don't GET IT when it comes to basic social skills.

It's as if they have logically reasoned that social

skills are for lower beings who need to play games...
and not worth the time it would take to learn them.

In fact, I believe that there are a lot of smart
guys running around this planet who don't even have

"social skills" and "be a cool guy that
people like"
in their "MENTAL MODEL" of what it could possibly
take
to be successful with women and dating.

Social skills are just that... SKILLS.

They're not social INFORMATION.

They're not social THEORIES.

They're social SKILLS.

And you don't get them by THINKING about them.
You get them by GETTING them.

Excellent social skills are the foundation for
good communication with other humans... and if you
don't have good social skills, you dramatically lower

your chances for success with women.

REASON #4: THEY PSYCH THEMSELVES OUT.

Smart guys do something that fascinates the hell
out of me...

They come up with all the reasons why everything
WON'T WORK when it comes to women and dating.

They actually figure out why what they would like
to do will probably fail...

They use their amazing creative imaginations to
imagine all kinds of horrible pictures and scenes...
and then they use those imaginary outcomes to create
negative emotions... which ultimately stop them from

having success with women and dating.

THEY DON'T EVEN TRY.

Now, if you've thought something through and come

up with a good reason why it would fail, it makes sense
to not do it, right?

I mean, why would you want to do things that are
going to fail?

It's sound logic, but HORRIBLE thinking when it
comes to the REAL WORLD... and success with women.

Because smart guys don't UNDERSTAND women, and
they don't UNDERSTAND what it takes to be successful

with women, they are working with bad figures. They're

wrong before they even start figuring!

Using your mind to come up with all the reasons
why things won't work in this area of your life leads

to ULTIMATE FAILURE.

You must learn to overcome this habit if you have
it.